爱没有合不合适,只有珍惜不珍惜!!Love it does not have inappropriate, only cherish the treasure


I found this from FB, would like to share it…

I think is very meaningful. The article is in mandarin, so I used full text translator to translate it.. hhaaha enjoy !!

刚搬进这个房子的那天,她整理完全部的东西,最后拿出一个非常精致的玻璃瓶,对他说道:

The day has just moved into this house, She has compiled complete all the items, and she Finally come up with a very fine glass, and tell him:

“亲爱的,3个月内,你让我每哭一次,我就往里面加一滴水,代表我的眼泪。要是它满了,我就收拾我的东西离开这房子。”

“Honey, 3 months, you make me cry every time I add a drop of water to fill it, on behalf of my tears. If it is full, I’ll pack up my things to leave the house.”

男人不以为然,有点纳闷:“你们女人也太神经质了吧!就这么不信任我么,那还有什么可谈?我让你搬过来和我一起生活,是为了照顾你,不是欺负你的!”

Men not agree, a bit puzzled: “You women are too nervous of it! What’s that do not trust me, then what to talk about? I will let you move over and I live together, is to take care of you, not the bully you!”

女人说:“好男人不会让心爱的女人受一点点伤,我会记录下我为什么流泪,不会是莫名其妙的。”

Woman said: “The good man will not let a woman beloved by a little injury, I will record why I cry, will not be inexplicable.”

“那好吧,抱抱~!”
两个月后,女人把那瓶子给男人看,说:“已经满一半了,在两个月内,我们是否有必要查看一下是什么问题呢?”说完递了一本精致的小笔记本给男人。
Two months later, a woman put the bottle to the man to see, said: “already half full, and in two months, we need to look at what is the problem?” Having handed a fine for a small notebook men.
男人没有马上打开来看,他的表情里有一丝惊讶,还有点哭笑不得的意味,似乎没有想到女人的眼泪可以这么多,盛得这么快,又觉得女人是小题大作了,但是很可爱。

Men did not immediately open the view, his expression there was a little surprised, but also point almost to tears mean, does not seem to think of a woman’s tears can be so much so fast Sheng also think women are making a fuss, but very cute.

他打开本子开始看,惊讶女人怎么写了那么多。男人一边看着,女人一边说话:“第一次吵架,是在第3天,而且还是一大早,你刚醒来有点懵懂,挤的牙膏不知道怎么的飞到镜子上了,那是我刚擦干净的,我说你连挤牙膏都不会啊,你就来脾气了,然后吵起来……”

He opened the book start with the surprised woman how to write so much. Watching men and women while saying: “The first fight is in 3 days, but also early in the morning, you wake up just a bit ignorant, do not know how to squeeze the toothpaste, mirror on the fly, it was just me wipe clean, I say you will not even squeezing toothpaste ah, you come to temper, and then got into a fight … … ”

男人沉默着。女人继续说:“有天晚上我让你帮洗下那几件衣服,因为水太凉,你只顾着玩游戏迟迟不肯动,后来吵起来,我很失望你忘记了我的生理期不能碰冷水,委屈……”

A man silent. Woman continued: “One night I let you help wash some clothes under it, because the water is too cold, and you are only playing games has been reluctant to move, then got into a fight, I’m disappointed you forgot my menstrual period can not be touch cold water, aggrieved … … ”

“还有一次,我很累了,你还不肯去洗澡睡觉,明明知道我特敏感,有点神经衰弱,哪怕一点点敲键盘的声音都能让我难以入睡,我一情急就说了你这个人自私 的话,我们吵起来,你说了一大堆辩论自己不自私自私的人是我之后甩门出去上网通宵,我打你电话你没拿我又不敢自己一个人去找你……”

“Another time, I was tired, and you refused to take a bath to bed, knowing that I Temin feeling a little nervous breakdown, even a little bit Qiaojian Pan’s voice make me difficult to fall asleep, as I said you that desperate were selfish, we got into a fight, you said a lot of debate they are not selfish selfish person that I go out into the Internet overnight after the rejection, I beat you you got my phone did not dare to own one to find you … … ”

女人这时候有点激动了,眼球开始泛红,说:“还有一次……”男人打断了她的话,“亲爱的,别说了……”

A woman this time a little excited, eye redness began, said: “Another time … …” the man interrupted her words, “Honey, let alone a … …”

沉默…长久的沉默……

… Long silence … silence …

还是女人打破了沉默:“是不是我们真的不合适?如果是这样,结婚了还是会离婚吧?我们的个性都那么强,谁都不肯退让。”

Or woman to break the silence: “It is not that we really inappropriate? If so, get married or get divorced, right? Our personality are so strong, no one refused to yield.”

气氛有点尴尬。

Atmosphere of embarrassment.

本子里记录的事情都是那么细小的事情,每次吵架的原因都是那么的简单,男人看着这本子,似乎在体会着女人的心情,大男子是不会去计较这些小事,原本觉 得每次和好之后都没事,女人就爱拿这些来说事,但是当他认真去看的时候,他也开始难过了,女人很细心,把事件、心情都写了,还自己总结了一下原因。原来最 微小的事情累积起来是很让人痛苦的,他看得出,女人从失望慢慢变成绝望。

The yard record things so small things, because every fight is so simple, a man looked at this book, seems to understand a woman’s mood, the male is not going to care about these little things, I had thought each After the meeting, and a good all right, a woman who loved to take these things, but when he take a serious look, he also began sad, and women very carefully to the incident, mood was also his summary of the reasons. The original accumulation of the smallest things is painful, he could see, a woman from down slowly into despair.

他想,大概是因为每次吵架,两人都是喜欢在吵架中找出对方不爱自己的证据。他突然意识到,这是个很严重的问题!而且每次吵架,双方都是在心情不稳定的时候,就是还有别的烦心事的时候,把不好的情绪带进了两个人的生活里。

He thought, probably because every time a fight, both are like a fight to find out they do not love their evidence. He suddenly realized that this is a very serious problem! And every quarrel, both parties are in the mood instability of the time, is there anything else bothering the time, the bad emotions into the lives of two people.

“亲爱的别难过……”男人终于说话了:“我请个假,我们去旅游吧。”

“Honey Do not feel bad … …” the man finally said: “I give a fake, we went to tour it.”

他们去了第一次一起旅游的地方,太多美好的回忆被唤起,原来彼此是那么深深地爱着对方,这时的女人特别温柔,这时的男人特别体贴。

They travel together to the first place, too many good memories were aroused, the original is so deeply in love with each other, then the special gentle woman, when men especially considerate.

“亲爱的,你还认为我们结婚的话,会离婚么?”男人问。

“My dear, you think we get married, get divorced it?” A man asked.

“我想不是我们不合适,像现在,我们是那么快乐,一切都那么美好,可是一回到我们的现实生活里,为什么就变了呢?”

“I do not think not to us, as now, we are so happy, everything is so beautiful, but a return to our real life, why changed it?”

“亲爱的,难道我们现在不在现实里吗?”

“Honey, are we now not realistic in it?”

“……”女人楞了。

She was stunned there…

“因为那时候我们都把注意力集中在负面的事物上并且放大了那些负面的心情。并且喜欢找对方不爱自己的证据,然后彼此个性都很倔不肯服输太要面子。”

“Since then we have focused attention on the negative things, and amplified the negative mood. And wanted to find the evidence they do not love themselves, each character is very stubborn and too unwilling to face a fighter.”

女人觉得确实是如此,原来,双方只是需要一点点忍让,一点点包容。男人带她回顾这初次旅游的地点,是真的用心了,想起那时候他们在一起还不久,为了让对方觉得自己好,都表现出自己最好的一面。

Women think is really the case, the original, the two sides just need a little patience, a little tolerance. Recalling the men took her first tour of the place, really carefully, remembering that time with them also soon to make each other feel good, have shown their best side.

“还有半个月,如果那瓶子还是半瓶,那么,亲爱的,嫁给我吧!”

“There are half a month, if the bottle or half bottle, then, my dear, marry me!”

女人钻进男人怀里笑开了颜

Woman got into the arms of smiling men opened Yen

后来他们结婚了。很少再吵架。如果粗心的男人不小心碰掉了杯子,女人不会再开口就骂,因为在女人开口之前,男人已经在道歉,说对不起,都是我不小心 的,赔两个给老婆!老婆尽管去选你喜欢的!女人就笑了,然后说,不用买啦,反正还有杯子,再说也不都是你的错,怪我自己没把杯子放好,让你碰到啦!

Later they married. Rarely quarrel. If a man does not care careless knocked a cup, a woman will not open reproved, because the openings in the women before the men have apologized and said I’m sorry, all I do not care, and lost two to the wife! While his wife to choose your favorite! A woman laughed and said, do not buy friends, anyway, there is a cup, say not all your fault, I do not blame the glass away, and let you touch it!

原来真的没有合适不合适,只有珍惜不珍惜,能一起走一起进步是幸福的!

Really did not fit the original inappropriate, not only cherish the treasure, to go along with the progress of happiness!

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