I found this from FB, would like to share it…
I think is very meaningful. The article is in mandarin, so I used full text translator to translate it.. hhaaha enjoy !!
The day has just moved into this house, She has compiled complete all the items, and she Finally come up with a very fine glass, and tell him:
“Honey, 3 months, you make me cry every time I add a drop of water to fill it, on behalf of my tears. If it is full, I’ll pack up my things to leave the house.”
Men not agree, a bit puzzled: “You women are too nervous of it! What’s that do not trust me, then what to talk about? I will let you move over and I live together, is to take care of you, not the bully you!”
Woman said: “The good man will not let a woman beloved by a little injury, I will record why I cry, will not be inexplicable.”
Two months later, a woman put the bottle to the man to see, said: “already half full, and in two months, we need to look at what is the problem?” Having handed a fine for a small notebook men.
Men did not immediately open the view, his expression there was a little surprised, but also point almost to tears mean, does not seem to think of a woman’s tears can be so much so fast Sheng also think women are making a fuss, but very cute.
He opened the book start with the surprised woman how to write so much. Watching men and women while saying: “The first fight is in 3 days, but also early in the morning, you wake up just a bit ignorant, do not know how to squeeze the toothpaste, mirror on the fly, it was just me wipe clean, I say you will not even squeezing toothpaste ah, you come to temper, and then got into a fight … … ”
A man silent. Woman continued: “One night I let you help wash some clothes under it, because the water is too cold, and you are only playing games has been reluctant to move, then got into a fight, I’m disappointed you forgot my menstrual period can not be touch cold water, aggrieved … … ”
“Another time, I was tired, and you refused to take a bath to bed, knowing that I Temin feeling a little nervous breakdown, even a little bit Qiaojian Pan’s voice make me difficult to fall asleep, as I said you that desperate were selfish, we got into a fight, you said a lot of debate they are not selfish selfish person that I go out into the Internet overnight after the rejection, I beat you you got my phone did not dare to own one to find you … … ”
A woman this time a little excited, eye redness began, said: “Another time … …” the man interrupted her words, “Honey, let alone a … …”
… Long silence … silence …
Or woman to break the silence: “It is not that we really inappropriate? If so, get married or get divorced, right? Our personality are so strong, no one refused to yield.”
Atmosphere of embarrassment.
本子里记录的事情都是那么细小的事情，每次吵架的原因都是那么的简单，男人看着这本子，似乎在体会着女人的心情，大男子是不会去计较这些小事，原本觉 得每次和好之后都没事，女人就爱拿这些来说事，但是当他认真去看的时候，他也开始难过了，女人很细心，把事件、心情都写了，还自己总结了一下原因。原来最 微小的事情累积起来是很让人痛苦的，他看得出，女人从失望慢慢变成绝望。
The yard record things so small things, because every fight is so simple, a man looked at this book, seems to understand a woman’s mood, the male is not going to care about these little things, I had thought each After the meeting, and a good all right, a woman who loved to take these things, but when he take a serious look, he also began sad, and women very carefully to the incident, mood was also his summary of the reasons. The original accumulation of the smallest things is painful, he could see, a woman from down slowly into despair.
He thought, probably because every time a fight, both are like a fight to find out they do not love their evidence. He suddenly realized that this is a very serious problem! And every quarrel, both parties are in the mood instability of the time, is there anything else bothering the time, the bad emotions into the lives of two people.
“Honey Do not feel bad … …” the man finally said: “I give a fake, we went to tour it.”
They travel together to the first place, too many good memories were aroused, the original is so deeply in love with each other, then the special gentle woman, when men especially considerate.
“My dear, you think we get married, get divorced it?” A man asked.
“I do not think not to us, as now, we are so happy, everything is so beautiful, but a return to our real life, why changed it?”
“Honey, are we now not realistic in it?”
She was stunned there…
“Since then we have focused attention on the negative things, and amplified the negative mood. And wanted to find the evidence they do not love themselves, each character is very stubborn and too unwilling to face a fighter.”
Women think is really the case, the original, the two sides just need a little patience, a little tolerance. Recalling the men took her first tour of the place, really carefully, remembering that time with them also soon to make each other feel good, have shown their best side.
“There are half a month, if the bottle or half bottle, then, my dear, marry me!”
Woman got into the arms of smiling men opened Yen
Later they married. Rarely quarrel. If a man does not care careless knocked a cup, a woman will not open reproved, because the openings in the women before the men have apologized and said I’m sorry, all I do not care, and lost two to the wife! While his wife to choose your favorite! A woman laughed and said, do not buy friends, anyway, there is a cup, say not all your fault, I do not blame the glass away, and let you touch it!
Really did not fit the original inappropriate, not only cherish the treasure, to go along with the progress of happiness!