CNY-2010
Well, 5 days more to Chinese New Year… times fly pretty fast.. can’t even make her stop for me… honestly, at this age, I don’t really enjoy CNY… cause there more works to do rather then just purely enjoy this festival.
For kids, this will be good.. hilarious moment, new clothes, ang pow to received, fire-cracker to play with, cookies, holiday and so on..
For me.. I know..I know I’m over that period.. more things to do…:( need to do spring house cleaning (haven’t completed yet.. God knows why), more expensive.. more busy.. argg… Well… I should just complaning.. just enjoy it and do whatever I can…
Here, I would like to wish all my friends and reader… Happy Chinese New Year..
Copy this from somewhere which I think is pretty cool…
DONG DONG CHIANG…
過去的一年裡，多少有得罪大家的地方，但是請大家相信：
In the last one year, there may be areas that I’d unknowingly offended you, please believe me that:
我還是溫柔的，請不要生我的氣！
It was done unintentionally, please don’t get mad at me.
因此請大家消消火，
Therefore, please, everyone, cool down and extinguish the fire in you,
拿出大俠風，別計較嘛！！
Be a hero, don’t be so calculative.
很快要過年了，
It’s going to be Chinese New Year soon,
不論是趕著結婚！
Whether you’re in a rush to get married,
返鄉回家！
“Balik Kampung”,
到處兜風！
“Ronda-ronda”,
或外出旅遊，都真心希望大家開心！！
or taking a vacation, I hope you’ve a happy time.
祝福大家在新的一年裡百尺竿頭！財源廣進！！
HOPE ALL OF YOU WILL PROGRESS FURTHER AHEAD IN THE FORTHCOMING YEAR AND HAVE A VERY PROSPEROUS YEAR.
祝大家 :
新年快樂 !! 一定要幸福喔 !!
GONG XI FAI CAI !!
Tired
7 days working without any off.. I’m tired… reached home every night after 11pm…
I’m walking like zombie now, sitting like zombie, eating like zombie, talking like zombie, working like zombie…hope didn’t make any mistake 
Just wish to climb on my comfortable bed and doze off like a baby…
Sharing some diving photos took by my friend. I miss diving..diving.. dive and dive
Working VS partner
Hahah.. this topic is not about how much you should divide your time between working and your partner/family or lover.
This is about working is like courting with your partner.. ?? don’t understand?
Well, let me explain it..
Working also like courting with your partner. When you are looking for a job, is the same as you are looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend.
If your job that you are looking with high pay, flexible time, good benefits, many days of annual leave.. and so on…
Same as like you are looking for your partner, handsome/beautiful, tall/short, long hair/short hair, royal, rich or moderate and so on…
When you find those requirement fit in yours requirement, then you will go ahead to work with that company same as you are happy with the partner, you will fall for her/him and start the courting time.
When you found your job is too hard to handle, your boss is too nasty or too much, you will start to look for another job and resign from the current job.
Hahah.. so if your partner is not good, where you think both of you not suitable for each other, you opt for break-up… and continue with the life and till you find another new partner.
Some people work very long for their job, 10 years, 15 years or 30 years (very royal huh!!) this mean you love your job and the company, you end up spend your whole life in that job.. this is equal you married to the partner.
So if you not happy with your job after so long, you will resign and look for another job, therefore you are going for divorce situation..haahah
So, don’t you agree that looking for a job is same as looking for a partner? Working for a company as commit your life with it? Just my thought 
Dream of diving again
Hmmm… I wonder what’s wrong with me.
I shall start the story from last year. Last year due to some events, I told myself in early 2009 I should cancel all my diving trip.
Cause diving is very expensive for me, each trip will cost me RM1K to RM2K, depends on the destination, the mode of transportation, the room that I’m choose and of course how many dives I want.
Therefore, I didn’t plan any trip at all in early of 2009, not like in 2007 and 2008, all my trips I planned ahead.
So I just take it easy, when I bumped into my friends who went for diving, I just checked with them, what they saw and so on.
I didn’t even take it seriously, was like normal conversation and after conversation, you will forget.
BUT… But, each time either after chat with my friends or I watched any underwater documentary, or without anything, I dream…I went for diving trip…
I dreamt of diving many times in 2009. I was surprised. All kind of dream, either I was in the boat preparing for my dive, or I missed the boat, due to I forgot my gears, or I dived in strange place, but beautiful place, full of big and giant underwater creatures.. I was excited.. the water was crystal clear, I saw all those beautiful fishes on the shore… I was excited and even scared.. cause those fishes were really big ..hahahah…
Therefore, 2009, I think I dives in my dream more than the real diving trip…and I dreamt of diving 2 weeks once.. I was like..argggggg..
I wonder what’s wrong, I didn’t even eager want to go for diving, how come? I kept on dream of diving. I told myself, I have to stop it.. wonder how…
Hmmm.. maybe just arrange one diving trip might help. So I made booking for flight, resort… amazingly, after the arrangement, no more DIVE IN DREAM.
No matter I met my friends, we chat about the previous dived or their recently dives, no more dream after that….after I made the booking.. strange, am I right?
I wonder 2010 will be the same as well? This time I dreamt of I went somewhere with a bunch of friends.. and I have no idea why ended up diving and most funny, I lost the BCD….hmmm… shall I book my diving trip again, or I shall observe first hahaha..
這已是 新一代人的觀念，老人家得學著去適應，否則，不堪 — — — 。
Share something I read from my friend forwarded to me…
which is quite true
評語：這已是 新一代人的觀念，老人家得學著去適應，否則，不堪 — — — 。
妻子寫給婆婆的一封信 ( 內容火爆 , 請做老公的小心)
是媳婦寫給婆婆的一封信( 真猛=..=’ ) 一定要看完喔~ 尤其是做人媳婦的和做人老
公的更是要看喔~~~ 最重要的是將來會當人婆婆的人更是一定要看的哦~~~呵~
我一直在想，<妳>對我到底有什麼意義？
你只不過是我丈夫的母親，在結婚之前，你在我的生命中根本沒有任何意義。
我的生命來自我的父母，今天的學歷、能力、教養、待人處世之道理，都是來自我父
母的承傳，沒有任何一分一毫是由你來貢獻。
所以我不懂，為何一結婚之後，我活了二十多年的歲月全部必須歸零，然後變成> >
>所謂「你家」的人，又變成你家「最小」的人。說「最小」是因為我在「你家」的
地位始終比我今年才2歲的兒子小。說真的，我心理很不平衡。
我的父母養育了我二十多年，而你是撿他們辛苦二十多年的結晶，根本來說∼你是不
勞而獲、撿現成的。所以我在幫你做事情時，你得感謝我的父母以及我的勞力付出。
如果你不感激那就算了，你不應該還對我有極大的意見，對我做的事情總是拿著放大
鏡來挑剔——雞蛋裡面挑骨頭。這簡直是得了便宜還賣乖。
我白天有自己的工作，經濟一向獨立，所以我根本不必依靠你的兒子，也還沒有靠過
你兒子的薪水過活過。而且我今天有謀生的能力，是仰賴我父母給我的教育，以及我
自己的不斷學習成長的能力。
所以我不能忍受我賺的錢好像理所當然必須貢獻給「你家」，然後我花我自己賺的
錢，都還要看看你的臉色，豈有此理！我又沒欠你，也不需要你養，更沒拿過你一毛
錢，我可以尊重你的意見，但是不能讓你做主。
所以我現在要跟你開誠佈公的講清楚說明白：電費是我在支付，所以酷暑的炎夏我開
冷氣睡覺你不准有意見，隔天要上班的是我，睡眠品質對我而言很重要。還有「佛要
金裝、人要衣裝」我要買幾套衣服、鞋子都是我的事情，請你一定要記住，這些都是
我自己賺的錢。
花錢的準則上面我自己有分寸，你要管就去管你兒子的錢，我用我能力勞力賺去的
錢，實在不想還要看你的臉色。而且，你不要老是以為你的兒子多棒，如果沒有我也
出去工作，你以為你去年可以去大陸旅遊二星期嗎？哪來的錢？
我常常在想，你對我其實真的沒有任何意義，如果你對我有任何形式上的意義，你只
不過是我丈夫的母親，你所有的恩情功勞都在他身上，要回報你的也是他，相同的能
叫我回報的也只有我的父母親，如果今天我的父母也這樣挑剔你的兒子，你心理又會
舒服嗎？你的兒子又能達到他們多少的要求？
所以~~以後你想吃水果，請叫你兒子切給你吃，因為這才是他應該做的。衣服也請你
兒子洗，畢竟你也幫他洗了二十幾年的衣服 (我連一雙襪子都沒有麻煩過你)。
要去看醫生，請他提早下班帶你去…我不想老是被扣全勤的費用，而且，我感冒
時，你還會對我冷言冷語∼笑我身體差，因此，你生病時，我沒有辦法提起太多的同
理心。言而總之，他孝順你是應該的，而我，要把我的孝心回饋給生我育我的父母
親。
如果要我幫你做，那麼你至少得閉上那張挑剔的嘴巴，然後心存感激，因為我沒有欠
你，幫你做，是因為看在妳是我丈夫的母親份上，僅僅是這樣而已，要不是他是我丈
夫，妳以為你會有這個榮幸嗎？而且，妳也得多看看新聞，現在都已經是「家務勞
給」的年代，妳既然沒有支付我薪水，我幫妳做家務事，你就要偷笑了！
最後，我寫這封信給妳，妳一定會覺得我大逆不道，但是人與人之間是互相尊重
的，我對妳便是以這樣的基礎去相處，如果妳不能夠同樣尊重我的感受，就算我會看
在你是長輩的份上退讓幾分，但是我還是要把底限說清楚。
妳會說「做人的媳婦要知道理」，但是我要在這邊反駁你~~我從來就不是你養大
的，我更沒有欠妳，而對你我已經發揮最大的容忍與尊重，其他需要學習的地方是在
你這邊。
婆婆，尊重別人也尊重你自己 !!~~~~~呼! 終於吐出來囉~ 真舒服~~~
24 Jan 2010-Novi’s big day
I reached Labis on Sat around 9pm. Is was my first time to Labis. Is a small town, and so convenient to go anywhere..no traffic jam…hahah
Actually I was a bit nervous for this trip, cause I haven’t been to Labis and was my first time to travel there by bus. And I faced some minor problem at Pudu. However I enjoyed the journey, there are so many oil palm trees, rubber trees, durian trees.. cover with green….surrounded with green.. green.. so nice.
On 24 Jan, I woke Novi up at 5am, for her to bath and ready for the make-up. I was nervous, I have no idea why..haha..Novi was very cool and nice, she told me not to give too much tension and pressure to myself. Just do the best. But I know I can’t, I want to do the best, I don’t want to disappointed her who gave me opportunity and trust on me. Lucky, everything went on smoothly (for me) and managed to finish on time.
I was one of the ji mui as well, I had a great time to be involve in her big day and get to know her family and relatives.
Novi’s hubby really love her, care for her and patient with her as well… I saw he kept on persuade Novi to have more food and so on..cause Novi didn’t have any breakfast at all.. I really wonder where she got the energy for run and focus on this big day.
Sincerely wish they will continue to be happy like this and forever
Novi, thank you for the trust, patient and the confident. I hope you like it If I did anything wrong accidently, please forgive me
JB trip
Tomorrow I’m going to JB- Labis… 1st bridal make up for Novi.
I’m nervous, Nd said I worry too much.
I know.. But I hope for perfect result, everything from hair to make up…
I worry I doesn’t make it up to my standard.
Feel like going to sick, have very bad ulcer deep at the left side.
I’m worry I’m will fall into sick.
God, please bless me and let me have an excellent 1st bridal job.
Please give me wisdom, patient and talent
I know.. I know..I request too much.. talent!!
Wish me all the best and I do hope Novi will love it.
I have prepared a small wedding gift for her… Hope she will love it.
And I hope she will like the make-up and hair do.
Random 1
Lately there so many things in my mind till I have no idea how to express it in words.
1st, wording – Allah
My understanding, all the religions only teach us to be good, to treat your neighbor nice, be kind, honest…I really haven’t came across any religion that teach to be violent, to hurt anyone and so on.
Sad to hear the bombing churches, smashing the cars which have the Jesus’s wording or cross. Come on, we are at 21 century, yet this people act violent like uneducated people, like from Sakai..what action has the authorize took? So far, haven’t heard any culprits were caught? No monetary was offer to those churches. Is this what 1 Malaysia’s message? Where is the Justice? Why can’t the issue solve in better way? And where is the law or rules that stated “Allah” only can use by certain religion? How will they feel if someone bomb or destroy their prayer place? How do they feel?
If your foundation is strong, your teaching is strong and you have faith in your religion, will you worry the wording as an issue? Is because you are weak in your religion, you have no faith in your religion, therefore you are scare?
Currently, country economic is not very strong, yet created such an issue. No wonder western issued a warning letter to people advice do not visit our country. When this happen? Who is the loser? We!!.. no other people.. our tourism industry will hit badly.. no tourist, no expenses on air-fare, no one stay in hotel, no one have food in restaurant, no one buying souvenirs and the worst no income… All the while our country carry a good image, but after all this happened, I wonder how the image will still look like?
2nd, Haiti earthquake
Another sad news.. so many people death.. people Haitians fighting for the food, delay in the rescue team and so on…
What’s the message? We should love our earth more? Not only for us, but for the next generation as well? We shouldn’t be selfish to enjoy it and left nothing for the next generation.
I hope those death, rest in peace… those survive, please be strong and love your life.
I hope that’s no more sad news… heart-wrenching…
3rd, 17 years old
5 students age 17 and a teacher death during the dragon boat training. Another sad news… all of them are so young, who will thought they will leave this world in this way.
They drowned after the dragon boat capsized after being hit by strong waves…
Sad… it just early of the year… only heard those sad news.
Bandung Trip (11 Jan 2010-14 Jan 2010)
Didn’t plan for this trip… my friend just invited me to join.. I was thinking, why not.. maybe I can get some nice product for ndevo…and I haven’t been to Indonesia.
After confirmed, I told my mum and my sister that I’m going to Bandung. I got an objection from them.. they told me is dangerous to go there due to the current issue…
Well, I told, I will check around. After made a few calls, I decided to go ahead.
Before I reach Bandung, my imagination for Bandung was like very dusty, people there are very poor, like the stories I heard before.
Surprisingly, it opposite… Bandung is not dusty as I thought, there are nice and big bungalows, most of the vehicles are Toyota Vios, Honda and so.. I seldom have chanced to see old car like in Malaysia. The people are handsome, fair and friendly
I enjoyed the trip especially with my friends…and the food.. yummy..yummy the grill chicken.. mentioned about chicken, their chicken is very small size.. me as a small eater, I can finish one whole chicken without share with anyone.. hahaha
We shopped and shopped till drop… happy shopping but when come to pack the luggage, headache.. haahh…just pray hard hope was not over weight.. Glad, just nice.. heehhe..
Hope to go again next year with them.. and I hope Andy will join me
